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When we solve our children’s problems for them, keep them constantly entertained so they don’t complain of boredom, or never let them lose, we are missing perfect opportunities to teach them how to stand up for themselves, find creative and productive means to get their own needs met, and how to manage disappointment, frustration and conflict.
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Try the following suggestions the next time your child is struggling. You may be amazed at how adept he/she already is in managing response-ability.
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4. Role Play: Trying on new roles can change perception. This can be particularly useful if there are conflicts in a relationship. Seeing both sides of the issue can bring clarity and understanding needed for a healthy resolution and can work well with sibling rivalry. Have your children reverse roles and play the part of the other. Or, you play the role of your child, and have your child play the role of a friend your child is having difficulty with. This is a great way for your child to experience first hand what “part they are playing” in the problem.
Your child will effectively and successfully navigate almost any struggle if you:
Listen so they know you truly understand;
Accept and Validate their personal experience;
Assist them to Create Options and possibilities;
and Play to expand their perceptions;
all to promote new levels of Response-ability.
Most feel it a duty to teach our children responsibility. We also need to teach our children response-ability. When we consistently become our child’s rescuer or protector we may be setting them up to attach themselves to the role of victim. We can, and should, provide our children with as many tools as possible to deal with all that life has to offer.
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